2014

As the year 2014 comes to an end, we should stop and reflect on the events of the year.
For some of us new people ( loved ones ) have come into our life's, and sadly we have loss loved ones.
 If we reflect, we would want to know, have the ones that have gone on to a better place know how much we loved them and cared for them?
As we go into 2015, make it a point to let everyone you love know how much you love them. You never know when the last time is going to be when you see them.
Even coworkers, or friends, tell them how much you appreciate them. Grace them with a smile or if  appropriate a hug. Neither cost you anything, and it could lift both of your spirits.
 For 2015, try to smile everyday, and see how much better you feel.
I plan to go into the new year, with a brighter outlook, so here's to 2015!

Love How you want to be Loved

Most people think relationships are hard, but they really are not. It's simple, Love how you want to be loved!  You have to accept things happen, you get disappointed, hurt, it's going to happen. You can not control another persons actions, simple, you can't, but you can control how you react  to the situation. Again, Love how you want to be Loved. Forgive how you would want to be forgiven.
 Think back to the day you said your I do's, at that moment all was right with the world, your future  bright your floating on air so to speak. Then Life gets in the way, but reflect and remember the I do's and it can get you though the day.

Giving

I also feel to truly love someone....You put their needs/wants first before yours.
 I feel if you show love and attention to your mate, for no under lying  reason, it will come back to  you ten fold.
 Men just think how happy your mate would be if you had her dinner ready when she came home, with nothing left for her to do but sit down and enjoy your  hard work. She would have more energy and time to devote herself to you.

First of all let introduce my self. My name is Kathy Henry, owner of Xcite Lingerie, located on HWY 58 in beautiful Chattanooga TN.
I opened Xcite in 2001, with the help and encouragement of my husband Rex. We have been married  for 39 years.
 I thought long and hard when coming up with the name for the store, I chose Xcite for many reasons.
 I feel like you need  to keep your relationship" Xciting"
 I spelled it with an X so you would know it's not your " mothers" lingerie.
When you keep it Xciting you keep it fresh!
 Ok, so here goes my first blog,

 I feel to truly love someone.....you must first love yourself.