Satisfy & Enhance Your (Love) Life & More!

Enhancing your love life can be as simple as a lube. Seriously. Do you want a lube? Or an experience?

And, as an added bonus, a lube that protects, heals and satisfies.
There are hundreds of lubes to choose from and often times this can be a confusing process. Certain stores and boutiques have a knowledgeable staff who are trained to help you make the best choice for your intimate adventures. You can also try to research it on your own online, but again, this too can be overwhelming. However in this particular blog, we're going to introduce you to one specific brand you may not be familiar with yet.
Something to consider..
Enhancing your intimacy can be explored with these wonderful products. Wicked(R) Aqua products offer a powerful anti-oxidant that helps moisturize, protect and heal the skin's surface.
Olive Leaf Extract naturally eliminates harmful germs, protects skin from transmitted viruses and bacteria as well as fungus and other parasites (think of toys here).
So you're actually protecting yourself while enjoying your experience.
Wicked(R) products are paraben-free, latex-friendly and vegan. Even though the Aqua is a water based product, couples can enjoy long lasting intimacy.
Olive Leaf Extract has demonstrated antioxidant and antihypertensive properties for your heart and play a major role in preserving cells from free radical damage and slow down the aging process. Olive Leaf Extract is a strong anti-viral, anti-fungal anti-bacterial anti-protozoan and anti-parasitic qualities.
* Boost your immune system.
* Help alleviate/minimize stress or anxiety
* Calming effect, Convalescence
* Great for athletes
* Reduction of arthritic pain or swelling
* Gout
* Resist disease after operations, chemotherapy
* Prevent traveler's diarrhea and upset stomach, great for right after eating and getting unsettled feeling or foods that might be past their expiration date
* Nip it in the bud - scratchy throat, headache, fatigue or feel a cold or flu coming on
* Holidays or if there's a pandemic scare
Keep in mind everyone's body is different and some people may have different or no results.
Some couples who prefer organic or vegan products, have also tried coconut oil. We don't recommend this for everyone. Wicked(R) is not organic, however they do use the highest grade and quality of ingredients available, including the silicone, and only use ingredients if they offer benefits to the product itself.
Vegan is a good standard for those wishing to continue in their philosophy of not testing on animals and more importantly, no animal by-products. Since the ingredients are already safe for humans, it makes sense to only test on humans. There are many alternatives today for ingredients there is no reason, except maybe for cost, for a company to use by-products when they can substitute with a safer ingredient.
For those who may have sensitive skin, there are many products on the market which are appropriate for your delicate areas. these products are hypoallergenic, glycerin free, latex free, pH balanced and paraben free, such as Wickeds(R) Sensual Care Collection, Aqua Sensitive product.

Xcite the Senses

I've read recently there is a science and an art to sex, or making love. In most relationships, couples want to please their partner and oftentimes they feel if the other person doesn't reach an O, or climax, they feel as if they're not satisfying their partner. Or, they aren't doing it right. More often than not, couples need to just slow down and enjoy the prelude, or the foreplay.
One way to slow down, and to xcite their partner is to utilize the other senses. If you were to blindfold someone (i.e. your partner), the other senses become more acute or heightened. You and your partner can receive more enjoyment when you incorporate touch, taste, listening and smell.

Use a feather to softly tickle their arms, legs or back in a playful manner. Other soft tickler can include: leather paddles or floggers. Maybe gentle bondage with a silk tie around the wrists.
An icecube can also be incorporated, enticing the arousal and anticipation of your next move. Massage candles and edible novelties are popular for a reason. Explore your inhibitions. Melt a massage candle, these can be edible or not, thus enhancing the massage with an invigorating touch from toes to fingertips. After inhaling the arousing aroma, massage your partner and then you decide how you want to remove it. Here you're incorporating all the senses, even blindfolded they can still visualize you. (Another feature could be dress-up, costumes, role-playing, this will be in another blog.) 

Everyone's olfactory can be turned on, or off, with different smells. There are thousands of scents available in candles and incense or potpourri to explore together. These aromas can become sensual memories to re-explore and savor.
In addition to massage candles, there are oils, with or without pheromones, gels and oral relationship enhancers. (inquire within ;-)) Just like the thousands of candle scents, there are probably hundreds of flavors to enhance couples' relationship and love life; from edible panties (briefs for him) to stimulants, lubes, body cream and candy.
Taste can also begin with favorite foods and beverages, before during and after.
(We will be elaborating on different types of aphrodisiacs in subsequent blogs.)
To help engage your partner more, listening is paramount, as we often give verbal cues. Most often people have favorite songs to evoke different moods. Music to dance to, lyrics to sing a long with, to memorable events associated with songs. Sometimes, just the sounds of nature are all that is needed.

The sound of stiletto heels slowly clicking on the floor have been known to be a turn-on. Some people are aroused by the sound of your voice, telling them what you like or dislike and fantasies and then reciprocating. Communication is paramount in any relationship. It is normal for most people to feel awkward discussing intimacy, however, you should find that once you have openly shared thoughts, concerns and fantasies, you will feel better in many ways and this too should bring you closer, strengthening your bond. Aphrodisiacs and pheromones can only be discovered when you verbally share with your partner.
Turning off cell phones, computers and televisions is paramount. Nothing can ruin a moment more than your smart phone bringing you back to the present, sometimes crashing the party.
Lighting, music and smells should be given careful consideration when nurturing your relationship.

...To be continued...

by Loretta Lynn

Date Night

Even though Valentine's  Day is over, don't let romance take a back seat in your relationship.

The way you love, depicts the way you get love returned. Give love the way you want to receive love.
Today life is so busy, what with work, children, their outside activities and other commitments, it's not surprising couples are tired and not spontaneous.
If you enjoyed a romantic Valentines, keep the romance going. It's the little moments that can mean the most.

Couples who have problems in their relationship site:
: Lack of communication
: Stress
: Feel stuck in a rut
: Money problems
: Intimacy Issues

Plan a weekly, if not monthly, date night.  A date does not have to be expensive,
Grab lunch; eat at the lake, sit in the car and watching the birds, ducks, or people fishing.
Just that little change in your daily routine will brighten your day and put a smile on your and your valentine's face.

Spice up your evening with romantic love songs, soft music relaxes your senses and can take the edge off a long day.
A hot bath enjoyed by two, can be your new vacation destination, draw a bath, a glass of wine, intimate caressing, let conversation be uplifting (don't discuss work, kids or bills, there is plenty of time for that). Maybe discuss a future trip, a weekend getaway, or your next date adventure (take dance lessons together, get a couples massage).

Remember what brought you together in the first place. Why did you fall in love with your partner? Leave him or her love notes, get some chalk and write on the sidewalk or driveway, put a blanket in the yard and watch the stars.

Romance takes two, but can be defeated by one, don't be defeated!

2015

 I love Valentines Day !
It's my favorite holiday, I admit it I'm a romantic, I guess that's why I love helping couples with their relationships. I love Valentines Day because it's all about romance.
I think Valentine's Day bring out the best in couples. Some try to surprise each other, even out do each other, which only makes the other partner try harder to out-do their mate.
 Just think how much nicer it would be if every month there was a Valentines day... a day set aside just for lovers! Just to show each other I LOVE YOU!!! and I want everyone to know it!
 You don't need a calendar to say it's Valentines day to show how much you love each other.
Make it your own.
 Tell yourself every 14th of the month you will do something special for your mate, such as breakfast in bed, hot chocolate in front of the fireplace, for no reason at all.
When your mate comes home surprise them with dinner by candlelight, that's truly romantic, that is if you didn't forget to pay the electric bill, then NOT so much
 If you need idea's stop by Xcite for romance  ideas or do some research on line, you'll see romance can be fun....and can lead to even more romantic adventures.
Romance can either start or stop with you. You make that decision.
Why not try to make 2015 your most romantic year in your life so far.
Remember Love is a verb....an action word...so get into action!

2014

As the year 2014 comes to an end, we should stop and reflect on the events of the year.
For some of us new people ( loved ones ) have come into our life's, and sadly we have loss loved ones.
 If we reflect, we would want to know, have the ones that have gone on to a better place know how much we loved them and cared for them?
As we go into 2015, make it a point to let everyone you love know how much you love them. You never know when the last time is going to be when you see them.
Even coworkers, or friends, tell them how much you appreciate them. Grace them with a smile or if  appropriate a hug. Neither cost you anything, and it could lift both of your spirits.
 For 2015, try to smile everyday, and see how much better you feel.
I plan to go into the new year, with a brighter outlook, so here's to 2015!

Love How you want to be Loved

Most people think relationships are hard, but they really are not. It's simple, Love how you want to be loved!  You have to accept things happen, you get disappointed, hurt, it's going to happen. You can not control another persons actions, simple, you can't, but you can control how you react  to the situation. Again, Love how you want to be Loved. Forgive how you would want to be forgiven.
 Think back to the day you said your I do's, at that moment all was right with the world, your future  bright your floating on air so to speak. Then Life gets in the way, but reflect and remember the I do's and it can get you though the day.

Giving

I also feel to truly love someone....You put their needs/wants first before yours.
 I feel if you show love and attention to your mate, for no under lying  reason, it will come back to  you ten fold.
 Men just think how happy your mate would be if you had her dinner ready when she came home, with nothing left for her to do but sit down and enjoy your  hard work. She would have more energy and time to devote herself to you.